Feel like you are the only one working on your marriage?
Living in a house full of people you love but you are feeling lonely and un-cared for?
Are you living life on autopilot, just going thru each day same as yesterday, feeling like there is nothing to look forward too?
You sleep next to your husband but feel miles apart?
Wondering how to bring back that loving feeling?
I understand and have been there, living life on auto-pilot gets you thru life but not happily. I remember days that my house was full of kids and my hubby was home but everyone was doing their own thing. Kids needed my attention and love, but felt like I was not getting any love in return. My husband and I didn’t get to spend much time together with a busy family= I FELT ALONE!
I found myself wondering- How can a person feel alone when you are surrounded by others, especially people who love you?
I wanted my husband to just hug me and tell me it would be ok, but I didn’t know how to tell him.
One of my biggest steps toward reviving my marriage:
While on my journey to make my relationship better with my husband I came across a quote from Stephen Covey, it challenged me to be better at loving my husband just the way he was. This statement gave me power to do what needed to be done. Steven Covey listened to a man that stated he did not know what to do because he wanted a divorce. Steven Covey’s reply is simple and profound.
“My wife and I just don’t have the same feelings for each other we used to have. I guess I just don’t love her anymore and she doesn’t love me. What can I do?”
“The feeling isn’t there anymore?” I asked.
“That’s right,” he reaffirmed. “And we have three children we’re really concerned about. What do you suggest?”
“Love her,” I replied.
“I told you, the feeling just isn’t there anymore.”
“Love her.”
“You don’t understand. The feeling of love just isn’t there.”
“Then love her. If the feeling isn’t there, that’s a good reason to love her.”
“But how do you love when you don’t love?”
“My friend, love is a verb. Love – the feeling – is a fruit of love, the verb. So love her. Serve her. Sacrifice. Listen to her. Empathize. Appreciate. Affirm her. Are you willing to do that?”
Stephen R. Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change
I realized I needed to change and become a Girlfriend again!
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